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	<title>Rob's Blob &#187; Self Improvement</title>
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		<title>Failure&#8217;s Assets</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jan 2012 16:25:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robert Coss</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Your failure may prove to be an asset, provided you know why you failed. There are a few occasions during our brief time on earth when most of us experience great flashes of insight, great moments of truth that forever &#8230; <a href="http://robertcoss.com/blog/2012/01/30/failures-assets-2/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span class="title1"><strong><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial; font-size: medium;"><span style="font-size: 13.5pt;">Your failure may prove to be an asset, provided you know why you failed.</span></span></strong></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Georgia;"><span style="font-family: Georgia; color: #333333;"><br />
There are a few occasions during our brief time on earth when most of us experience great flashes of insight, great moments of truth that forever change the course of our lives. Most of those experiences result from spectacular failures, not from outstanding successes. It is from the failures that so chagrined and dismayed us that we learn the most lasting lessons. When you are the unwilling recipient of a great moment of truth, extract the useful lessons and then put the entire episode behind you. Learn from your failures, forget about them, and move on to better things.<br />
Source</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: xx-small;"><span style="font-size: 7.5pt; font-family: Georgia; color: #333333;">: <a href="http://naphill.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=4c4529ce36ccec0645d107769&amp;id=fa8abacc13&amp;e=72c6ed76bf">Your failure may prove to be an asset, provided you know why you failed.</a></span></span></p>
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		<title>Effects of a Positive Attitude</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Jan 2012 00:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robert Coss</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Individuals with positive mental attitudes are never found in a rut. Individuals with a positive attitude are those who somehow always manage to find something new and interesting even in the most mundane tasks. They don&#8217;t allow themselves to be &#8230; <a href="http://robertcoss.com/blog/2012/01/28/effects-of-a-positive-attitude/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span class=title1><b><font size=4 color="#333333" face=Arial><span style='font-size:13.5pt'>Individuals with positive mental attitudes are never found in a rut.</span></font></b></span><font color="#333333" face=Georgia><span style='font-family:Georgia;color:#333333'><br /> Individuals with a positive attitude are those who somehow always manage to find something new and interesting even in the most mundane tasks. They don&#8217;t allow themselves to be bored, because they are always seeking ways to do things faster, better, and more efficiently. If you make it a practice to find better ways to do the same old things, you will soon be marked for advancement. You will be supervising others who are performing your old job because you&#8217;ve proven that you are a person who can be counted on to take the initiative and do what needs to be done without being told. <br /> Source</span></font><font size=1 color="#333333" face=Georgia><span style='font-size:7.5pt;font-family:Georgia;color:#333333'>: <a href="http://naphill.us2.list-manage2.com/track/click?u=4c4529ce36ccec0645d107769&amp;id=e3f8f16c73&amp;e=72c6ed76bf">Individuals with positive mental attitudes are never found in a rut.</a></span></font></p>
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		<title>Making Decisions</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jan 2012 00:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robert Coss</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Opportunity never sneaks up on those who straddle the fence of indecision. Successful people are decisive people. When opportunities come their way, they evaluate them carefully, make a decision, and take appropriate action. They know that indecision wastes time that &#8230; <a href="http://robertcoss.com/blog/2012/01/27/making-decisions/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span class=title1><b><font size=4 color="#333333"  face=Arial><span style='font-size:13.5pt'>Opportunity</span></font></b></span><span class=title1><b><font size=4 color="#333333" face=Arial><span style='font-size: 13.5pt'> never sneaks up on those who straddle the fence of indecision.</span></font></b></span><font color="#333333" face=Georgia><span style='font-family:Georgia;color:#333333'><br /> Successful people are decisive people. When opportunities come their way, they evaluate them carefully, make a decision, and take appropriate action. They know that indecision wastes time that could be spent on more productive tasks. They also avoid unnecessary risks by implementing their decisions gradually. They don&#8217;t attempt to make every decision at the beginning. Each action is contingent upon the success of the one that preceded it. Benjamin Franklin, one of </span></font><font color="#333333" face=Georgia><span style='font-family:   Georgia;color:#333333'>America</span></font><font color="#333333" face=Georgia><span style='font-family:Georgia;color:#333333'>&#8217;s wisest men, is said to have used a simple method to make difficult decisions. He drew a line down the center of a sheet of paper, and on one side he listed the &#8220;pros&#8221; of the decision; on the other, he listed the &#8220;cons.&#8221; In addition to simplifying the decision-making process, the list also served as a graphic illustration of the advantages and disadvantages of any decision, regardless of its complexity. The impact of the decision could then be quickly and easily assessed. <br /> Source</span></font><font size=1 color="#333333" face=Georgia><span style='font-size:7.5pt;font-family:Georgia;color:#333333'>: <a href="http://naphill.us2.list-manage1.com/track/click?u=4c4529ce36ccec0645d107769&amp;id=77e0cd30f7&amp;e=72c6ed76bf">Opportunity never sneaks up on those who straddle the fence of indecision.</a></span></font></p>
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		<title>Think Carefully</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 00:00:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robert Coss</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Chickens come home to roost, and so do your thoughts. Be careful what sort of thoughts you send out. The thoughts you send out to others will have a far greater impact upon you than upon them. Unlike a material &#8230; <a href="http://robertcoss.com/blog/2012/01/26/think-carefully/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span class="title1"><strong><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial; font-size: medium;"><span style="font-size: 13.5pt;">Chickens come home to roost, and so do your thoughts. Be careful what sort of thoughts you send out.</span></span></strong></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Georgia;"><span style="font-family: Georgia; color: #333333;"><br />
The thoughts you send out to others will have a far greater impact upon you than upon them. Unlike a material possession, when you release a thought or give it to someone else, it also stays with you. It may remain buried in your subconscious long after your conscious mind has forgotten about it. Like chickens that return to the coop at night, such thoughts may flash into your consciousness when you least expect them. When your thoughts are positive, you never have to worry about the damage you may do to yourself through negative thinking. Cheerful, productive, happy thoughts that are buried in your subconscious bring positive results when they recur, and by their presence they encourage the maintenance of a positive attitude in all that you do.<br />
Source</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: xx-small;"><span style="font-size: 7.5pt; font-family: Georgia; color: #333333;">: <a href="http://naphill.us2.list-manage2.com/track/click?u=4c4529ce36ccec0645d107769&amp;id=d7ab9e4740&amp;e=72c6ed76bf">Chickens come home to roost, and so do your thoughts. Be careful what sort of thoughts you send out.</a></span></span></p>
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		<title>Enthusiasm</title>
		<link>http://robertcoss.com/blog/2012/01/25/enthusiasm/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2012 00:00:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robert Coss</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#160; Enthusiasm is contagious, and the person who has it, under control, is generally welcome in any group of people. Source: Enthusiasm     &#160; Share on Facebook]]></description>
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Source</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: xx-small;"><span style="font-size: 7.5pt; font-family: Georgia; color: #333333;">: <a href="http://naphill.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=4c4529ce36ccec0645d107769&amp;id=31969ed13f&amp;e=72c6ed76bf">Enthusiasm</a></span></span></p>
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		<title>Followers</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Jan 2012 00:00:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robert Coss</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Followers Most great leaders began in the capacity of followers. They became great leaders because they were intelligent followers. Source: Followers   Share on Facebook]]></description>
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Most great leaders began in the capacity of followers. They became great leaders because they were intelligent followers.<br />
Source</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: xx-small;"><span style="font-size: 7.5pt; font-family: Georgia; color: #333333;">: <a href="http://naphill.us2.list-manage2.com/track/click?u=4c4529ce36ccec0645d107769&amp;id=61d6b050af&amp;e=72c6ed76bf">Followers</a></span></span></p>
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		<title>Examine Yourselves</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Jan 2012 00:00:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robert Coss</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A most beneficial use of time is silent meditation, while searching for guidance from within. We all experience rare moments when a blinding revelation comes to us, when we suddenly see things differently than ever before. Usually, however, we learn &#8230; <a href="http://robertcoss.com/blog/2012/01/20/examine-yourselves/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span class="title1"><strong><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial; font-size: medium;"><span style="font-size: 13.5pt;">A most beneficial use of time is silent meditation, while searching for guidance from within.</span></span></strong></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Georgia;"><span style="font-family: Georgia; color: #333333;"><br />
We all experience rare moments when a blinding revelation comes to us, when we suddenly see things differently than ever before. Usually, however, we learn the truth about ourselves gradually, over long periods of time, from quiet introspection. We are all spiritual, but some of us have learned to tap more effectively into the great strength that resides in the spiritual portion of ourselves. The spirit is not boisterous and noisy. Getting in touch with your spiritual self demands tranquility and solitude. Make sure you dedicate a portion of every day to thought and study, to think and reflect upon your life. Choose a time and place that best allow you to relax your mind and devote your thoughts to reflection.<br />
Source</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: xx-small;"><span style="font-size: 7.5pt; font-family: Georgia; color: #333333;">: <a href="http://naphill.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=4c4529ce36ccec0645d107769&amp;id=02e2256fda&amp;e=72c6ed76bf">A most beneficial use of time is silent meditation, while searching for guidance from within.</a></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Arial;">2 Cor 13:5 Test yourselves to see if you are in the faith; examine yourselves! Or do you not recognize this about yourselves, that Jesus Christ is in you — unless indeed you fail the test? NASU</span></span></p>
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		<title>The Secret Of Education</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jan 2012 00:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robert Coss</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you really are smarter than others, show them with your actions. It is a natural human reaction for you to wish to correct others when you see them making a mistake or doing something differently than you would have &#8230; <a href="http://robertcoss.com/blog/2012/01/18/the-secret-of-education/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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It is a natural human reaction for you to wish to correct others when you see them making a mistake or doing something differently than you would have done it. It is far more difficult to control the impulse to show them how much more intelligent you are. The ability to recognize and control such impulses marks the beginning of the development of wisdom. A wise person knows that when he shows his intelligence with the actions he takes, others learn a far more valuable and lasting lesson. If you see someone who could benefit from your advice, you can gently lead him to a more appropriate conclusion by asking open-ended, nonjudgmental questions. Let others find the flaws in their reasoning by leading them logically through the process. As Ralph Waldo Emerson once said, “the secret of education lies in respecting the pupil.”<br />
</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: xx-small;"><span style="font-size: 8.0pt; font-family: Georgia; color: #333333;">Source</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: xx-small;"><span style="font-size: 7.5pt; font-family: Georgia; color: #333333;">: <a href="http://naphill.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=4c4529ce36ccec0645d107769&amp;id=2124e1d862&amp;e=72c6ed76bf">If you really are smarter than others, show them with your actions.</a></span></span></p>
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		<title>The Really Great</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2012 00:00:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robert Coss</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you are really great, you will let others discover this fact from your actions. In the final analysis, all that really matters are your actions. You may talk a good story, but no matter how good you are at &#8230; <a href="http://robertcoss.com/blog/2012/01/17/the-really-great/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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In the final analysis, all that really matters are your actions. You may talk a good story, but no matter how good you are at selling others on your capabilities, eventually you have to perform. It is true that people are generally forgiving and will overlook an occasional failure to deliver upon your promises. Ultimately, though, you must live up to your promises to others if you ever expect to make a lasting impression on them. Make it a habit to demonstrate your abilities before talking about them. Seldom is anything worthwhile achieved without the help of others, and nothing is ever achieved without some form of action. The road to failure and despair is littered with the dreams of those who failed to act upon them.<br />
</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: xx-small;"><span style="font-size: 8.0pt; font-family: Georgia; color: #333333;">Source</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: xx-small;"><span style="font-size: 8.0pt; font-family: Georgia; color: #333333;">: <a href="http://naphill.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=4c4529ce36ccec0645d107769&amp;id=7a63d69cbe&amp;e=72c6ed76bf">If you are really great, you will let others discover this fact from your actions.</a></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoBodyText"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">Matt 20:25-28</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">But Jesus called them to Himself and said, &#8220;You know that the rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their great men exercise authority over them.  26 &#8220;It is not this way among you, but whoever wishes to become great among you shall be your servant,  27 and whoever wishes to be first among you shall be your slave;  28 just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many.&#8221; NASU</span></span></p>
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		<title>If You Are Worried</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jan 2012 02:57:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robert Coss</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you are worried or afraid of anything, there is something in your mental attitude that needs correction. Worry and fear are negative emotions that serve no useful purpose. Worse, they are not benign influences on your behavior. Both tend &#8230; <a href="http://robertcoss.com/blog/2012/01/16/if-you-are-worried/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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Worry and fear are negative emotions that serve no useful purpose. Worse, they are not benign influences on your behavior. Both tend to expand if left unchecked until they crowd out positive emotions and beliefs, taking over your mind and filling it with counterproductive emotions that cause you to doubt your ability to succeed at anything you attempt. Unless you control worry and fear, one day you will discover that they control you. While the emotions can’t always be corrected with logic or reason, they are always susceptible to action. Act, and even if your actions aren’t entirely appropriate for the situation, the very act of doing something — anything — constructive will have a positive effect on your mind and attitude.<br />
</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: xx-small;"><span style="font-size: 7.5pt; font-family: Georgia; color: #333333;">Source: <a href="http://naphill.us2.list-manage2.com/track/click?u=4c4529ce36ccec0645d107769&amp;id=5b7ef92b4d&amp;e=72c6ed76bf">If you are worried or afraid of anything, there is something in your mental attitude that needs correction.</a></span></span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Arial;"><br />
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