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Can Be Forgiven For Past Wrongs

Questions Asked in the Lesson

 Does the Lord really forgive me?
 Will there be a Scarlet letter stamped upon my person for the rest of my life?
 What causes a person to conceal their sin?
 If I’ve had intercourse, must I marry?
 How could God possibly forgive someone who’s done what I’ve done?

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Summary

The lesson “7 Can Be Forgiven For Past Wrongs” delves into the topic of sexual sin and its consequences, focusing on the path to forgiveness and restoration. It emphasizes that sexual sin, whether premarital or adulterous, carries significant guilt and consequences but assures believers that true repentance and confession can lead to divine forgiveness. Drawing on Biblical examples such as King David, Mary Magdalene, the Apostle Paul, and the thief on the cross, it illustrates how God’s grace extends to all who genuinely seek forgiveness. It asserts that forgiveness is available through Christ’s sacrifice, which cleanses believers and restores their relationship with God, though it doesn’t eliminate earthly consequences. The lesson warns against concealing sin and encourages open confession, accountability, and seeking both divine and human forgiveness.

Test Your Knowledge

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1.According to the lesson, what must a person do to receive forgiveness for sexual sin?
A.Perform penance
B.Wait for divine intervention
C.Confess and forsake the sin
D.Ignore the sin

Answer: C

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2.Which Biblical figure is primarily used as an example of repentance and forgiveness in the lesson?
A.Moses
B.Paul
C.David
D.Peter

Answer: C

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3.What does the lesson suggest is the root cause of concealing sin?
A.Fear
B.Pride
C.Ignorance
D.Weakness

Answer: B

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4.What principle does the lesson derive from David’s experience regarding guilt and forgiveness?
A.True guilt must be confessed to be forgiven.
B.Guilt doesn’t exist without feeling guilty.
C.Guilt can be ignored if one feels remorseful.
D.Guilt feelings are permanent.

Answer: A

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5.According to the lesson, what should someone do if they have wronged another person?
A.Apologize privately
B.Seek the person’s forgiveness directly
C.Pray for forgiveness only
D.Forget the incident

Answer: B

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6.Which Biblical figure committed adultery and murder yet was still forgiven by God?
A.Moses
B.King Saul
C.King David
D.Solomon

Answer: C

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7.According to the lesson, who was delivered from seven demons and honored by Jesus?
A.Martha
B.Mary Magdalene
C.Ruth
D.Lydia

Answer: B

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8.What lie does the lesson say Satan tries to convince people of?
A.That God does not exist
B.That sin has no consequences
C.That they cannot be forgiven
D.That all religions lead to God

Answer: C

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9.What does the lesson claim is the basis for the forgiveness of all sins?
A.Good deeds
B.Church attendance
C.Christ’s death on the cross
D.Prayer and fasting

Answer: C

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10.Which person in the lesson was forgiven at the very end of his life?
A.Zacchaeus
B.The thief on the cross
C.The centurion
D.Nicodemus

Answer: B

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Outline

I.Introduction: Sexual Sin Categories and Realities
A.Premarital and marital sexual sins discussed.
B.Acknowledgment of widespread sexual struggles.
II.Biblical Perspective on Forgiveness
A.Scriptural support for forgiveness (e.g., 2 Corinthians, Ephesians).
B.The necessity of confession over concealment.
III.Consequences of Concealing vs. Confessing Sin
A.Inner torment and spiritual separation when sin is concealed.
B.Liberation and joy upon sincere confession.
IV.Personal Reflections and Examples
A.David’s confession and restoration.
B.Modern-day implications and testimonies.
V.Principles of Forgiveness
A.Distinction between guilt and feelings of guilt.
B.Importance of forsaking sin and seeking accountability.
VI.Practical Steps Toward Forgiveness
A.Seeking human forgiveness.
B.Embracing freedom to counsel others despite past failures.

Outline 2

I.Introduction:
A.Addressing feelings of unworthiness and despair over past sins.
II.The Lie That One Cannot Be Forgiven:
A.Many believe they’ve sinned too greatly for God’s forgiveness.
B.Satan’s role in perpetuating this lie.
III.Biblical Examples of Forgiveness:
A.King David: Adultery and murder, yet called a man after God’s own heart.
B.Mary Magdalene: Delivered from seven demons and honored by Jesus.
C.Apostle Paul: Persecuted Christians, became a chosen apostle.
D.The Thief on the Cross: Found paradise in his final moments.
IV.The Power of the Cross:
A.Jesus’ death covers all sin for those who believe and repent.
B.Emphasis on the sufficiency of Christ’s sacrifice.
V.Call to Repentance and Faith:
A.God’s willingness to forgive.
B.Encouragement for the reader to turn to Jesus.
VI.Conclusion:
A.Assurance that no sin is too great for God’s mercy.

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The Lesson

Here is a list of questions that will be answered:

Study Guide

1. What are the two categories of sexual sin mentioned in the lesson, and how does the Bible address each?

The two categories of sexual sin mentioned in the lesson are:

1.Premarital Sexual Sin : This includes fornication (sexual intercourse prior to marriage) and lasciviousness (lighting the fire of passion or indulging in lustful desires that do not culminate in sexual intercourse). The Bible addresses these by prescribing abstention and sanctification, urging believers to avoid such behaviors to maintain holiness.
2.Marital Sexual Sin : This is described primarily as adultery, which involves infidelity within marriage. The Bible also addresses this by urging believers to remain faithful to their spouses and avoid any form of sexual immorality.

The teacher emphasizes that both categories of sexual sin are taken seriously in the Bible, with clear instructions to avoid them and pursue a holy life. It further explains that forgiveness is available through confession and repentance, regardless of the category of sexual sin committed.

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2. How does the lesson differentiate between feeling guilty and being guilty, and why is this distinction important?

The lesson differentiates between feeling guilty and being guilty by emphasizing that feeling guilty refers to the emotional response one might have, while being guilty pertains to the actual transgression against God’s laws. This distinction is important because one might not feel guilty yet still be guilty in God’s eyes, necessitating confession and repentance regardless of emotions. The lesson underscores that true guilt must be confessed to be forgiven, highlighting that feelings can be deceiving, whereas the fact of Scripture remains constant. Believers are encouraged to appropriate the truth of their forgiveness as stated in the Bible, even if they still feel guilty, reinforcing that the fact of guilt and the feelings of guilt must be distinguished for genuine spiritual restoration.

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3. In what ways does the lesson suggest that confession and repentance lead to spiritual restoration?

The lesson suggests that confession and repentance lead to spiritual restoration in several ways:

1.Forgiveness and Cleansing : Confession and repentance result in forgiveness and cleansing from sin. The lesson emphasizes that when a person confesses their sins, God is faithful and just to forgive them and cleanse them from all unrighteousness. This process restores the individual’s relationship with God.
2.Removal of Guilt : True guilt before God is forgiven through confession, even if feelings of guilt persist. The lesson stresses that individuals must appropriate the truth of Scripture and believe they are forgiven, which helps in overcoming lingering guilt feelings.
3.Inner Peace and Joy : Confession leads to the release of inner torment and brings peace and joy. The lesson illustrates this through David’s experience, where his acknowledgment of sin led to forgiveness, which brought him joy and gladness.
4.Restoration of Communion with God : For Christians, unconfessed sin severs communion with God. By confessing and forsaking sin, individuals restore their fellowship and daily interaction with God, enjoying His presence and blessings once again.
5.Freedom to Counsel Others : The act of confession and repentance frees individuals to counsel others, even in areas where they formerly sinned. The lesson highlights that like David, who taught transgressors God’s ways after his own sin, a repentant person can help others turn to God.
6.Reconciliation and Healing : Confession initiates reconciliation not only with God but also with people who were wronged. Seeking forgiveness from those individuals is part of the healing process and fosters restored relationships.

By embracing these aspects of confession and repentance, individuals can experience profound spiritual restoration, finding renewed purpose, joy, and closeness with God.

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4. What role does accountability play in overcoming persistent sin according to the lesson?

According to the lesson, accountability plays a crucial role in overcoming persistent sin. The lesson emphasizes that if a person continues to struggle with the same sin despite seeking forgiveness, they must seek godly counsel and make themselves accountable to others. This is because internal motivation to change may be lacking, and external motivation becomes necessary. The lesson illustrates this principle with biblical examples, such as Nathan confronting David to hold him accountable for his sin. Similarly, God may bring people into one’s life to provide accountability, and individuals are encouraged to embrace this accountability as a means of fostering genuine change and spiritual growth.

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5. Reflect on the story of David; how did his experience illustrate the process and benefits of genuine repentance?

David’s experience, as described in the teacher, powerfully illustrates the process and benefits of genuine repentance through several key aspects:

1.Concealment vs. Confession : Initially, David tried to conceal his sin with Bathsheba, even going so far as to commit additional sins (like the murder of Uriah) to cover it up. However, this concealment led to immense inner torment, guilt, and a severed relationship with God. It wasn’t until the prophet Nathan confronted him that David confessed his sin openly, saying, “I have sinned against the Lord.” This confession marked the turning point from hiding his sin to seeking forgiveness.
2.True Guilt vs. Feelings of Guilt : The teacher emphasizes that David’s true guilt was forgiven by God when he confessed, even though the emotional burden of guilt feelings may have lingered. Psalm 32 reflects David’s relief after confession: “Blessed is the one whose transgression is forgiven, whose sin is covered.” His experience shows that while feelings of guilt can persist, believers must appropriate the truth of God’s forgiveness as stated in Scripture.
3.Restoration and Joy : After confessing, David experienced restoration in his relationship with God. In Psalm 52, David prays for cleansing and expresses confidence that God will restore joy and gladness to him. He writes, “Restore to me the joy of Your salvation,” showing how genuine repentance leads not only to forgiveness but also to renewed spiritual vitality and peace.
4.Freedom to Counsel Others : One significant benefit of David’s repentance was his ability to teach others about God’s mercy and forgiveness. Despite his grave sins, David became an example of humility and redemption, using his past failures to guide others toward repentance. As the teacher notes, David declared in Psalm 51:13, “Then I will teach transgressors Your ways, and sinners will be converted to You.” This demonstrates that forgiveness doesn’t disqualify someone from ministry or teaching; rather, it equips them to help others who struggle similarly.
5.Consequences Without Punishment : While David was forgiven, the teacher highlights that consequences remained—he lost the child born out of adultery, faced family strife, and endured public shame. Yet these consequences were not divine punishment but opportunities for growth and deeper dependence on God. David accepted responsibility for his actions and trusted God to work through the fallout.
6.Brokenness Over Pride : The root cause of David’s initial resistance to confession was pride, which kept him from humbling himself before God. Once he embraced a broken and contrite heart, acknowledging his sin without self-justification, he received God’s forgiveness. Psalm 51 underscores this principle: “The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart, O God, You will not despise.”

In summary, David’s story illustrates that genuine repentance involves moving from prideful concealment to humble confession, resulting in forgiveness, restored communion with God, freedom from inner torment, and the ability to counsel others—all despite enduring earthly consequences. His experience serves as both a warning against hiding sin and an encouragement that no one is beyond God’s grace when they sincerely repent.

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6. Why do some people believe they cannot be forgiven, and how does the lesson challenge that belief?

According to the teacher, some people believe they cannot be forgiven because they are overwhelmed by guilt, shame, and the haunting memory of their past sins—especially sexual sin. They may feel that what they’ve done is too severe, too shameful, or too repeated to be covered by God’s mercy. This belief is often rooted in pride, self-condemnation, or deception from Satan, who lies to people by suggesting that their sins are beyond God’s grace.

The lesson challenges this belief by highlighting the consistent message of Scripture: that forgiveness is available to all who truly confess and repent. It points to powerful biblical examples—such as King David, who committed adultery and murder but found forgiveness; the thief on the cross, who was saved moments before death; and Mary Magdalene, who was delivered from demonic oppression and honored by Christ. The lesson insists that God is rich in mercy, and that the blood of Christ is sufficient to cleanse any sin. It emphasizes that God does not hold confessed sin against the believer, and that forgiveness truly means forgiveness, no matter how serious the offense.

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7. What significance does the thief on the cross hold in the context of last-minute repentance?

According to the teacher, the thief on the cross holds powerful significance in the context of last-minute repentance because he represents the truth that it is never too late to be forgiven. Though he had lived a sinful life and was being executed for his crimes, in his final moments he acknowledged Jesus as Lord and asked to be remembered in His kingdom. Jesus responded by assuring him, “Today you will be with me in paradise,” demonstrating that genuine repentance—even at the end of one’s life—is met with immediate and complete forgiveness.

The teacher uses this example to dismantle the lie that someone can be too far gone or too late for grace. It shows that salvation is not based on a lifetime of good deeds but on a moment of sincere faith in Christ. The thief’s story offers hope to anyone burdened by their past, affirming that God’s mercy is available up to the very last breath, provided there is true repentance and trust in Jesus.

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8. In what ways does the lesson suggest that Satan uses guilt to separate people from God?

According to the teacher, the lesson suggests that Satan uses guilt to separate people from God by convincing them that their sins are too shameful or too severe to be forgiven. He promotes the lie that forgiveness is not possible for people who have committed certain sins—particularly sexual sins—which leads them to despair, hide their wrongdoing, and avoid turning to God in repentance. This guilt creates a barrier of self-condemnation, causing individuals to withdraw from God’s presence and remain trapped in secrecy and spiritual isolation.

The lesson explains that Satan exploits this guilt not to lead people to repentance, but to keep them in bondage, convincing them they are unworthy of God’s grace. He blinds them to the truth of the gospel—that God is rich in mercy and ready to forgive all who confess. By keeping people focused on their shame instead of Christ’s atonement, Satan prevents them from experiencing the freedom, healing, and restored relationship with God that comes through genuine confession and faith.

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9. How does the death of Jesus provide assurance of forgiveness for all sins?

According to the teacher, the death of Jesus provides assurance of forgiveness for all sins because it was the ultimate and final sacrifice that satisfied God’s requirement for justice. The lesson emphasizes that forgiveness does not come from confession alone, but through the shedding of blood, as stated in Hebrews 9:22: “Without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness.” Jesus’ death on the cross fulfilled this requirement once and for all, making it possible for any person—regardless of their past—to be fully forgiven if they repent and place their faith in Him.

The teacher explains that Christ absorbed the full penalty of sin on behalf of humanity, acting as the substitute and bearing the guilt we deserved. This means that when someone truly confesses their sin and believes in Christ’s finished work, their sin is not only forgiven—it is forgotten, removed, and never held against them again. The lesson illustrates this with vivid metaphors, such as sin being swallowed into a black hole or erased with a divine eraser, underscoring that “forgiveness means forgiveness.” The cross stands as the permanent assurance that God’s mercy is real, sufficient, and accessible to all who sincerely turn to Him.


The list of lessons for Friendship, Dating, and Marriage by Eddie Eggerich.

  1. Romance
  2. Why And What Of Dating
  3. Who Of Dating
  4. When And Where Of Dating
  5. How Of Dating 1
  6. How Of Dating 2
  7. Can Be Forgiven For Past Wrongs
  8. Male & Female Differences 1
  9. Male & Female Differences 2 due by 4/27
  10. Male & Female Differences 3